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"A household residing in the northern part of London wants to find an remarkable and skilled educator to support their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might naturally miss the phrase "initial stages" as simple figurative language.

But, it could be the crucial element of this unusual employment listing, as it aims to find a teacher for a infant.

Many of applications have since been sent in since the anonymous family posted their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has received attention across the news, with several asking why?

Innovative Idea

A tutoring expert, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their quest, said that in spite of first scepticism, he found the plan "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he consulted the family, he noted they understood the unusual nature of their request, and how young their son is.

Nevertheless, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural bias had already taken hold".

What exactly does the family mean by "cultural leaning"?

It's "comprehensive", he replied. "The way you eat, the manner you speak".

He stated the firstborn had adopted "very nuanced, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural habits. The family told him they wished to avoid this pattern to recur with their younger child.

The plan: To bring in a English tutor, who should speak with standard English accent, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Natural Absorption

"Much of the development at the start here is rather acquired indirectly," said Adam.

It's by means of this natural absorption that the family are aiming the child will pick up the British traits they wish to cultivate.

The consultant noted the tutor needed to be an individual who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The educator just has to be the suitable individual, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he added.

Money No Object

The family informed him the selected educator should ideally also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in equestrian activities, skiing, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to shape the child in a wide range of passions.

More than that though, he explained the family hoped the tutor to enrol the child on a variety of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's perspective, helping their son become a "British gentleman" will bring about achievement and provide access.

"Taking into account the rights and wrongs of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he comments.

But, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "UK identity", might the child adopt alleged cultural influence from the globally influenced family he is raised by in any case?

"Yes", replied the CEO. "The family know this might not succeed, but they've just taken the perspective of, 'why not attempt it and let's go as soon as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he stated.

Impractical

A number of in the education sector who express these reservations.

Peter Cui, head and founder of Blue Education, who also offer individual instructors, stated that "the process of embracing two identities, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not engineered."

He noted that he had relocated from Asia to the UK at the age of 7 years old, and had been brought up experiencing and living both cultures. He went on to be educated at Cambridge University.

"The notion that one individual can serve as a embodiment of Britishness, an individual who can somehow impart the qualities of a English gentleman to a 12-month-old child, appears naive and unrealistic," he stated.

"In my experience, engaging a quintessentially British tutor from early childhood will will not automatically create the result they want.

"I did not have such a figure, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to live numerous of the situations they hope for their son."

He continued: "The reality is, self-identity cannot be forced from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must come from within."

Purchasing UK Culture

Certainly, Britishness is something Adam believes can be educated – and sold.

"I think the situation that the world views us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating